But one question continues to cause uncertainty: Where should the bow on a dirndl apron be tied? Its position serves as a silent code about relationship status and sends clear signals at the Wiesn.
The most important rule: the position is always determined from the wearer’s perspective. If the bow is tied on the left side, it means the woman is single. A well-known saying goes: “Left side, love’s on your side!” If the bow is on the right, it signals that she is taken and not interested in advances.
Other bow positions
Different placements also have meaning. A bow tied in the middle at the front once symbolized virginity but today is often worn by children or women who prefer not to reveal their status. If the bow is at the back, it can mean the wearer is widowed or working as a waitress in the beer tent. In the latter case, it is mainly practical—tying it at the back keeps the ribbons out of the way when serving.
How to tie the perfect bow
To ensure the bow looks neat, the apron ribbons should be smoothed or ironed. The apron should sit at the waist, not the hips, to highlight the narrowest part of the body. Cross the bands at the back, bring them to the front, and tie a knot on the chosen side. Then form a firm, even bow—similar to tying shoelaces. Avoid double knots, as they look untidy and wrinkle the fabric. The loops should be balanced, the bow visible, but not oversized.
It is also important to note that not every Oktoberfest guest knows this traditional “code.” Some simply tie the bow where they like. And regardless of its position, the bow should never be mistaken as an open invitation.
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